Outfit deets: 
* Alfred Sung top (from Zellers).  I wore this outfit for the Superbowl party I went to where everyone was rooting for the SF 49'ers (I couldn't care less, actually).  Sadly, even my outfit couldn't help them win.
* Joe Fresh pants which I purchased almost a year ago and am wearing them for the first time ever (and can I just say I will never wear these pants again!  They are so freakin' tight I can't even get the button done up and they have zero stretch.  Wah wah).
* Accessories:  Expressions necklace.

I started writing this post two years ago, but didn't get very far.  Something triggered my memory and I went to search for that draft post and it was dated February 14, 2011 (almost two years to the day!) and thought it would be interesting to Define Myself.

So let's get a little superficial; I mean, what life doesn't involve those sorts of things to a certain extent? I'm not talking the deep stuff that matters, I'm talking the silly, little, small things that make us who we are (just put aside the deep stuff for a minute, kay?).  As I think back over the years, things have definitely changed but some things remain the same. Here's what defines me today:

Shoes (lots of 'em); usually heels.
A two-door car (with a manual transmission).
Shopping.
Blogging.
Travelling (more than ever).
Home-made lunches.
Skinny pants.
Doing things on my own (like buying a condo, paying bills and being independent for kind of the first time ever).
Sleeping in on weekends.
Flowy tops.
Workin' 9 - 5 (ish).
Birth control.
Bangles & big necklaces.
Milk.


February was a busy month and flew by in a snap (I guess being the shortest month does that) but seriously, it feels like just yesterday I was saying, 'I can't believe it's the end of January'.  Needless to say, I'm not complaining, we are just that much closer to summer & warm weather!

This month I wore neons & rocked my new leopard belt, I picked up a few new cases for my phone (pink spike, mint stud, black rhinestone bow & rhinestone skull which isn't shown here but I did show on Instagram) and showed you a few different ways to style three tops for a date.

I learned how to layer my jackets (and shared with you!), bought some stuff from China (that didn't really fit, sadly), and took some outfit shots in my apartment.  I DIY'ed a maxi dress into a skirt & showed my car several times (which I eventually sold).

I received flowers a week before Valentines' Day, wore a skirt after months of just pants & hit the gym 4-5 times every week for five weeks (hello, that's pretty awesome).  Someone special cooked some amazing meals for me, my family surprised me a month early to celebrate my birthday and the best of all, I purchased a new car!


Other look-backs:


Okay, this one is a toughie for me because I don't really like to talk about this, except maybe with my best friend.  I don't like to openly admit, out loud, to others (on the Internet!) what my body hang ups are.  However, this is an open, safe space and we agreed to share and just be totally honest.  So, here goes nothing...

If I could change something about myself, it would be my...

Sorry I'm a day late!  Here are some shots from the weekend...
 On Friday night I decided to make spaghetti & meatballs
(instead of just regular meat sauce for the spagehtti).


A mini blueberry pie (perfect for sharing!).


 Saturday morning.


Breakfast with my girls
(yes, at the same spot I normally go on weekends with the man, but a different location!).


 On Saturday night I went to watch the boy dominate in an indoor golf tourney...
Oufit deets:  Urban Planet sweater, H&M tank, Sirens denim & Spring boots.


 ...then we grabbed pizza & wings afterwards.


 Sunday morning breakfast.


 Sunday afternoon I did some shopping for my upcoming vlog (see all fashion vlogger vlogs HERE).
Outfit deets:  thrifted jacket, DIY sweatshirt, Sirens leggings, Spring boots & MK watch.


 Sunday night sushi date.



And because I'm just so excited, a pic of my new car that I've been giddy about every time I have to drive somewhere.


Vroom vroom.


I have a ton of jackets (two closets full, which is a little cray) that I love, but being in a climate where we have four distinct seasons it makes sense.  Except when winter tends to be much longer than it should be and drowns out the milder times you wish you could wear all those lighter weight jackets. 

This year, I discovered a way to wear the jackets that I love, despite them maybe not being 'season appropriate'; layer them!  Two jackets are much warmer than one and tend to be just as warm as my warmest jacket.  Provided your jacket is slightly roomy, this method will work wonders and keep you warm without sacrificing style through the colder months.

How to do it:
1.  Start with a smaller, snug but warm jacket for the under jacket.  This one is an old Joe Fresh puffer; a warm leather jacket would work well too.
2.  Grab your roomier jacket and throw it on over top. 
3.  Add your accessories (long gloves, a scarf, ear muffs, whatever!).
4.  Zip or tie up your top jacket to hide your jacket underneath et voila!  Warmth & style.

* Tip:  if you can belt your coat to cinch your waist, it helps define your body under all the layers (but not imperative).


(Black bomber is Joe Fresh & herringbone coat with fur is Forever 21; both old)
 
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