tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post2832403977730842563..comments2023-10-15T09:15:24.777-04:00Comments on A.Co est. 1984: What are you dating deal breakers?Amanda @ Life with A.Cohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06025586220505577002noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-12645860091054073452013-04-11T16:09:59.342-04:002013-04-11T16:09:59.342-04:00One thing I watch for is the way he treats waiters...One thing I watch for is the way he treats waiters or doormen. If he's rude or mean, its over. I can't stand unneccesary rudeness!<br />Also smoking is disgusting imo.Lorenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12363468555125167161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-58664095568961850372013-04-11T13:44:22.774-04:002013-04-11T13:44:22.774-04:00I, too, agree with all of the deal breakers your o...I, too, agree with all of the deal breakers your other readers have listed. Smoking, not drinking, being clingy, etc... One thing that makes me uncomfortable (or used to in the past)is when a guy wanted to buy me things all the time. I was dating a guy who, on my 20th birthday, sent two dozen roses, an expensive necklace, gift cards to Express (and VS and Coach)...I mean it was nice and all, but OVERKILL! It made me super uncomfortable and after we broke up I fely like I owed him! LOL. Rebecca @ Thats So Pearlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01669221850941835363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-62118368070675995282013-04-11T13:15:42.581-04:002013-04-11T13:15:42.581-04:00@Anon: I totally understand. I've dated a cou...@Anon: I totally understand. I've dated a couple guys (one more seriously than another) that both lived at home. At first, I wasn't thrown, but over time I couldn't help but wonder WHY they still lived at home... it became very unattractive. I would not be able to date someone that lives at home now, having been through it especially.Amanda @ Life with A.Cohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06025586220505577002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-4902570350458989642013-04-11T13:15:38.741-04:002013-04-11T13:15:38.741-04:00Seemingly obvious - a liar! NO DEAL!
... and all t...Seemingly obvious - a liar! NO DEAL!<br />... and all the wonderful things contributed above!<br />- LCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-54904564329418288722013-04-11T11:29:28.561-04:002013-04-11T11:29:28.561-04:00I agree with all the deal breakers above! Smoking,...I agree with all the deal breakers above! Smoking, clingy, etc. all awful. <br /><br />I also agree with the bit about no drive in life. The top things I'm attracted to are a sense of humour and drive/passion in life - so if someone doesn't possess those - it's a no go. I also like that the person above mentioned a guy living at home still... I just met a wonderful guy (in his early 30's) recently but he lives at home! I don't want to sound awful but I really don't think I can get past it. Is it awful? I'm just proud and happy with where I am in life and that just feels like he's a step (a leap?) back. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-77305138729100204842013-04-10T18:56:57.017-04:002013-04-10T18:56:57.017-04:00I really could make this into a long list but then...I really could make this into a long list but then I would look shallow and superficial lol. However, the main thing I could not deal with is someone who has no drive in life. Still living at home at 30 and clubbing every weekend? Nope! <br /><br />I would also never date someone who is over protective or possesive (been there done that!) I'm too indepedent to have to check in with someone all the time!LandOfTheGlamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15805294573214839137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-1483516129403972732013-04-10T16:24:31.054-04:002013-04-10T16:24:31.054-04:00@AA: omg, good call on the tipping and too clingy,...@AA: omg, good call on the tipping and too clingy, I agree!! I want attention, I don't want to be smothered. I don't want to be insecure about your whereabouts, but I like missing someone to a certain extent.<br /><br />@MelMac: GOOD CALL! Smoking is a deal breaker for me too, why didn't I think of that!? ;) And agree, the drinking thing, it's not superficial and I find it somewhat awkward with a friend when they won't have a drink, so a partner like that would not be so ideal.Amanda @ Life with A.Cohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06025586220505577002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-5483269335946351522013-04-10T15:49:41.783-04:002013-04-10T15:49:41.783-04:00Smoking is a big no-no for me. Good hygiene would ...Smoking is a big no-no for me. Good hygiene would also be a deal breaker. If you stinky....no kinky! LOL!<br /><br />Another one would be a bad temper. I hate when a BF flies off the handle for no good reason.<br /><br />For a serious relationship, I also don't think that I would be in one with someone who doesn't drink at all. That may sound superficial but enjoying a drink or two to relax or having fabulous wine with a nice meal is one of my FAV things to do! So being with someone on a day-in day-out basis that doesn't enjoy that too...well I think that would be hard to get past (long term). Great topic, keep'em comin'!<br /> Melissa Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908591786761071921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5335781471218233480.post-16359873137705414522013-04-10T15:30:56.606-04:002013-04-10T15:30:56.606-04:00A dealbreaker for me is being overly needy and cli...A dealbreaker for me is being overly needy and clingy. I dated a guy that would call me like 25 times a day and show up at my apartment unannounced and uninvited. Not cool! I need my space. <br /><br />I'm with you on the cheapness thing. Financial responsibility is cool, but when you tip exactly 15% (and not a penny more) or drive 20 miles to save 2 cents a gallon on gas,that is out of control and I won't tolerate it. AAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18350700644082604891noreply@blogger.com